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From the Desk of Father Rubey
Thursday, May 17, 2018 by Father Ruby
In June, we celebrate Father’s Day. As we think of Fathers what word comes to our minds? For some, it is “caretaker.” For others, it is “protector.” Both connotations are very descriptive of who a Father is and is supposed to be.
Honesty after Loss
Thursday, May 17, 2018 by Cynthia Waderlow MSE, LCSW
Grief has been said to strip away everything that is non-essential, a distillation process. But after the gaping shock of a suicide, the mind of the survivor is beset with layers of questions and conflicting narratives.

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Helping Grieving Children Through the Holidays
Sunday, December 01, 2013 by Jodi Rule-Rouse and Linda Ranson Jacobs
Adults play an important role in helping children grieve, especially over the holidays when new emotions and memories can hit with full force. Children often have trouble expressing their emotions, and when they see their parents hurting, they naturally want to protect their parents, so the children may not be open about their own grief. Close family friends and even other relatives can step in and assist the parent in helping the children grieve. The following are tips that a parent or another adult can use to help grieving children through the holidays.
From the Desk of...Father Rubey
Sunday, December 01, 2013 by Father Rubey
During December many of us celebrate Christmas and Hanukkah which are very happy times for the celebrants. It is the festival of lights where there is a lot of gaiety and celebrations. Families come together and exchange gifts and eat all different types of food. I remember years ago I went to spend Christmas with my family in Ireland. My cousin shared with me that many Christmases the main meal was ruined because there was too much celebrating and she forgot that the meal was in the oven. One of the key elements of this season is the giving of gifts. Small children get their lists together for Santa with the hopes that Santa will honor all of the requests. This time of the year is also a very painful time for those who are grieving the death of a loved one from suicide. There is and always will be a key loved one who is missing from the gatherings. The first few Christmases are especially painful for those left behind because this loved one is sorely missed and there is a major void in the gathering and there is a gift missing from this loved one and a lost opportunity to buy something for this loved one.